Insecurities and Relationship

 
 Insecurity; an Emerging Scourge in Relationships Everyone has signs of
insecurity: it's a piece of the human experience. 

 However, insecurity can be at the root of relationship issues. 
There are ways to move past relationship issues, insecurities and other issues that plague you and
your loved one.  
It will take time, dedication to the issues and 
honesty, but you and your loved one can overcome your problems if you
work together. If you think that insecurities are ruining your
relationship, talk to your loved one.  

 Communication is integral during
a time like this, and the two of you need to be as honest as possible
with one another. Jealousy is one of the biggest signs of insecurity, 
and if you, your loved one or both of you is constantly jealous, it 
could be a sign that the two of you need to talk and figure out a 
solution. At the end of the day, each of you has to learn to trust the  
other.
 
You may feel insecure about losing your loved one, but if you 
don't trust them, your relationship can't grow because you will always
question what they do and say. If you feel jealous or insecure because
of past relationships, bring this up with your partner. Let them know
what your triggers are and learn to talk not only about your own 
relationship but also your past relationships. 

Communication problems in relationships are another sign of insecurities and something you'll 
need to work on. If either of you is passive aggressive or refuses to
bring up or discuss problems, then nothing can get better for you or 
for the relationship. Insecurities are based in fear, and the only way
to work out these fears is to confront them with the support of a
loved one. Lastly, if you and your loved one still seem to be dealing
with the same issues and problems, consider couples counseling. This
could save your relationship at the end of the day.