I came across this in one of my conversations on a website.It is about a girl hitting on another girl,..Read!!
need a little tip on how to handle this, Am having a crush on a girl, from the first I saw her I fell in love.She Lives in same building with M̶̲̥̅ε̲̣ so I get to see her once in while,Mostly in the morning while going out.The best pleasantries we have exchanged so far is 'hi an hello' the real problem for me Is how to approach her with my feelings.She stud/butch but not sure she is gay . Don't know anything about her expect her name which I just got from another neighbour yesterday...This is getting even more interesting...
I so much like her but don't know how to go about it . Please if you have any tips or advice give me.
the second part reads ..finally! I spoke to her about my feelings towards her, but feel so hurt because she made it clear to me that she not into women, it hurts so bad, I spent my today thinking of her.The good news is that spoke to her,bad news is she doesn't love the way I do.
My Advice
Firstly, It's great that you finally got the courage to tell her how you felt,But!
...put yourself in this girls shoes, and someone who live quite close to you ask you out "A girl ask a girl out in Nigeria" definitely she is gonna deny that she is a lesbian,Reasons!
She will feel the need to do her shit out side her home away from the eyes of loved one(family) and stuffs unless she is Independent and we all know that is like a hard task here in Nigeria.
Secondly,She might not know your real intentions for her..
Believe it or not,but what you felt was not unusual,as everyone is entitled to love in any way that makes them happy
P:S.. I will advice you take your time next time,be more friendly with her,Let her into your world and gradually,she will let you into hers.Patient is the key factor here,so excise it..and before you know what's happening your whispering sweet thoughts to each others ears..
Trust me on this one,cos it works magic
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